A Better Lifestyle

Do you wonder if someone is talking shit about you? Whether your friends will approve?

Well, it’s time you started not giving a fuck.

1. People will be/are talking shit about you

Without a doubt! This could be happening right now. Some people in your class or coed may not like you, but guess what? There's nothing you can do about it! Don't BOTHER and WASTE your effort into trying to please this people or change the way they think about you OR EVEN WORRY ABOUT IT! These ARE the people who don't like you anyways! You sometimes don't hear the bullshit coming out of their mouths in person, it will usually come out on the web and that's when you do see it. But the real problem is that it will confirm your paranoid delusion that everyone out there secretly hates you.

Luckily, that’s not actually true. So the first fact is that, most people don’t even care that you’re alive. Embrace this, Not Giving A Fuck, is true freedom. The world is vast and you are tiny spec of shit, and therefore you may do as you wish and cast your thoughts of those who dislike it to the side.

2. Why do you need everyone to like you?
 
Not only do most people don't know that you even exist, and some are judging you, but it totally doesn't matter even if they are!!! When people don’t like you, nothing actually happens. World War 3 will not happen! You don’t feel them breathing down your neck! In fact, the more you ignore them and just go about your business, the better off you are.

So not giving a fuck is actually a necessary action and step to create a good life for yourself. It can’t happen without it. That’s why you have to begin today.

 3. Keep the people that matter

You need to realize that the people who do care about you, and no one else, are those who you need to keep.

Relationships are weird. Once we’re in one (friend or family or whatever), we begin to take the other person for granted and move on to impressing strangers instead. For example, your boss. Then, once you've impressed your boss, we start taking him for granted too, and so on, in an endless cycle of apathy. It’s like we always prefer to impress and charm the new than to work on what we already have.

The people that matter, they understand your quest or your cause. They make you feel good when you’re around them, make you laugh or make you feel like you can just be yourself. They make you feel relaxed or at ease. You’ve shared things with them. They’re important to you. 

4. Those who don't give a fuck change the world and live better

Life is tough. To move past anything is to simply realize that your obstacle is unimportant, and that it can be dismissed. This is true whether you’re running a marathon or trying to get the girl of your dreams.

If you throw away the things that do not matter; if you remove those things from your mind and focus on what must be done; if you understand that your time is limited and decide to work now; only then will you be able to get to the finish line. Otherwise, you will be dissuaded into living a life you aren’t interested in.

You need to handle failure and obscurity better. You may be in a tough place right now where you feel lonely or like a loser. No worries, we’ve all been there. But it’s time for you to realize how common these things are, and that they’re experienced by even the most successful and happiest people in the world. Those people get past them, and you will too.



Sooo.... To wrap this up, just don't give a fuck. Life is less stressful like that. Trust me. 

Love isn't a game

When saying "I love you", you shouldn't say it without any proper reason to it. The way I see it, when you say "I love you" to someone, you must've gone through ups and downs with him/her. That's how you beginning a relationship with a person I suppose, going through ups and downs with someone who is very special to you.

A perfect relationship to me is just like any ordinary cliche story you see in the movies or series. Boy and girl are bestfriends and they then fall in love. The reason for it is because when you say "I love you" to your bestfriend, you are saying you enjoy and treasure every single memory and experience you have with him/her. So "I love you" is like saying "Thank you for everything, but I just want to express it better." Ya know?

But anyways, saying "I love you" with a proper reason or without a proper reason (at this age) is quite... pointless and sad at the end of it all. That's the saddest part in life I've ever seen in everyone, including me. It's like you have made a BEAUTIFUL Sundae which has like 10 scoops of ice-cream on top of it, and later on, it will either:
- Melt
- Get eaten and there is nothing left to keep


When I meant 'Melt', I mean the relationship is going NOWHERE, and it just drags on for a long time (since melting takes a longer time for the ice-cream to turn into liquid than eaten) without having any proper purpose*. 'Melt' to me is, asking a girl to be yours just like paying a hooker. You have no reason to getting into a relationship besides that you either want one or you just feel like it. And "Get eaten and there is nothing left to keep", both couples just simply eat the ice-cream till there is nothing left to eat, which simply means that the relationship is just getting old or dying out... and all of that "I love you" is gone to waste, or maybe not.


proper purpose* - Two friends just get together and decide to be in a relationship because "hey, why not?" or they are desperate but later on find out that this relationship just sucks balls and end it.

Don't be someone's bitch

I've finally realized that people who spend their money a lot, need help with the shit they do in class. I was humble to everyone, but now I choose to be humble to a few people. I chose to be humble to the people who can return the favor and are humble back. I did not choose to be humble to the rest because, well... for obvious reasons, they cannot return the favor and are quite greedy. In this "who to be humble" sort of situation, I've divided the different types of people: (You would see this 'different types of people' more often in my other posts)

- People who have good personalities, are rich, know how to be humble back (I humble, but also are very rare people)
- People who have good personalities, are rich, don't give a shit about being humble back (They can go screw themselves, A LOT OF THEM ARE ROAMING AROUND)
- People who have good personalities, aren't rich, know how to be humble back (Ofcourse I'd be humble back)
- People who have shitty personalities, are rich or aren't rich, simply don't know how to be humble back (Do you really think I'd be humble back? No.)

That's how I see it for most of the times. Most of their personalities really rely on their financial background really... It's really some psychological thinking. Not trying to discriminate anyone in my posts/blogger, it's just really how I see things based on psychological shit. 

I used to be someone's bitch, till I realized that I am doing a lot of things for this person and I am not getting anything back in return. "I am being used." was what I said. So whenever that person or just ANYONE in general who asks me for help, I would say "No." I ain't a walking caretaker for people who don't know how to live their lives humbly.

Introduction

Read the posts if you are interested in seeing the way I see things around me. Friends will know me as being loud and straightforward and what not. However, my close friend are aware that I am not just some loud fool in school. I've decided to write this blog to show them what I see. This is simply because I cannot write it to them through social networking. It will just be too long and time consuming.

Continuously, I think about the world around me, my surroundings and how it is affected by everyone. As the saying goes, "Everyone is different." Not exactly. Everyone may physically look different, but everyone shares common personalities... and thoughts. Some of the post you may find them sexist or racist or just some small discrimination. Well, don't be TOO offended. I just simply observe what I see is infront of me. This blog may seem like a vent (possibly is), but I assure you... If you think about it deeply and logically, it will all make sense, I hope.