When saying "I love you", you shouldn't say it without any proper reason to it. The way I see it, when you say "I love you" to someone, you must've gone through ups and downs with him/her. That's how you beginning a relationship with a person I suppose, going through ups and downs with someone who is very special to you.
A perfect relationship to me is just like any ordinary cliche story you see in the movies or series. Boy and girl are bestfriends and they then fall in love. The reason for it is because when you say "I love you" to your bestfriend, you are saying you enjoy and treasure every single memory and experience you have with him/her. So "I love you" is like saying "Thank you for everything, but I just want to express it better." Ya know?
But anyways, saying "I love you" with a proper reason or without a proper reason (at this age) is quite... pointless and sad at the end of it all. That's the saddest part in life I've ever seen in everyone, including me. It's like you have made a BEAUTIFUL Sundae which has like 10 scoops of ice-cream on top of it, and later on, it will either:
- Melt
- Get eaten and there is nothing left to keep
When I meant 'Melt', I mean the relationship is going NOWHERE, and it just drags on for a long time (since melting takes a longer time for the ice-cream to turn into liquid than eaten) without having any proper purpose*. 'Melt' to me is, asking a girl to be yours just like paying a hooker. You have no reason to getting into a relationship besides that you either want one or you just feel like it. And "Get eaten and there is nothing left to keep", both couples just simply eat the ice-cream till there is nothing left to eat, which simply means that the relationship is just getting old or dying out... and all of that "I love you" is gone to waste, or maybe not.
proper purpose* - Two friends just get together and decide to be in a relationship because "hey, why not?" or they are desperate but later on find out that this relationship just sucks balls and end it.
