Do you wonder if someone is talking shit about you? Whether your
friends will approve?
Well, it’s time you started not giving a fuck.
1. People will be/are talking shit about you
Without a doubt! This could be happening right now. Some people in your class or coed may not like you, but guess what? There's nothing you can do about it! Don't BOTHER and WASTE your effort into trying to please this people or change the way they think about you OR EVEN WORRY ABOUT IT! These ARE the people who don't like you anyways! You sometimes don't hear the bullshit coming out of their mouths in person, it will usually come out on the web and that's when you do see it. But the real problem is that it will confirm your
paranoid delusion that everyone out there secretly hates you.
Luckily, that’s not actually true. So the first fact is that, most people don’t even care that you’re alive. Embrace this, Not Giving A Fuck, is true freedom. The world is vast and you are tiny spec of shit, and
therefore you may do as you wish and cast your thoughts of those who
dislike it to the side.
2. Why do you need everyone to like you?
Not only do most people don't know that you even exist, and some are judging you, but it totally doesn't matter even if they are!!! When people don’t like you, nothing actually happens. World War 3 will not happen! You don’t feel them breathing down your neck! In
fact, the more you ignore them and just go about your business, the
better off you are.
So not giving a fuck is actually a necessary action and step to create a good
life for yourself. It can’t happen without it. That’s why you have to
begin today.
3. Keep the people that matter
You need to realize that the people who do care about you, and no one else, are those who you need to keep.
Relationships are weird. Once we’re in one (friend or family or whatever), we begin to take the other person for granted and
move on to impressing strangers instead. For example, your boss. Then, once you've impressed your boss, we start taking him for granted too, and so on, in
an endless cycle of apathy. It’s like we always prefer to impress and
charm the new than to work on what we already have.
The people that matter, they understand your quest or your cause. They make you feel good when
you’re around them, make you laugh or make you feel like you can just be
yourself. They make you feel relaxed or at ease. You’ve shared things
with them. They’re important to you.
4. Those who don't give a fuck change the world and live better
Life is tough. To move past anything is to simply realize that your
obstacle is unimportant, and that it can be dismissed. This is true
whether you’re running a marathon or trying to get the girl of your dreams.
If you throw away the things that do not matter; if you remove those
things from your mind and focus on what must be done; if you understand
that your time is limited and decide to work now; only then will you be
able to get to the finish line. Otherwise, you will be dissuaded into
living a life you aren’t interested in.
You need to handle failure and obscurity better. You may
be in a tough place right now where you feel lonely or like a loser. No
worries, we’ve all been there. But it’s time for you to realize how
common these things are, and that they’re experienced by even the most
successful and happiest people in the world. Those people get past them,
and you will too.
Sooo.... To wrap this up, just don't give a fuck. Life is less stressful like that. Trust me.
